As God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved,
clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience.
(Colossians 3.12)
A Clean House
There is a great Southern tradition that encourages entering
the New Year with a clean house—not merely a neat one, but a clean one. In the days leading up to the
holiday, many Southerners take stock of all they’ve accumulated over the past
year and decide what’s worth saving and what isn’t. They dig through cupboards, discarding stale items shoved into the corners. Old
magazines and loose papers of no lasting value get tossed out. They inventory
their closets for clothing they’ve
ignored—or had no use for—during the past 12 months. Getting rid of
outdated stuff makes room for new blessings. It’s an exercise in creating
clarity, the means to free oneself of unnecessary encumbrances.
Now, to be perfectly honest, I’ve never known anyone who
followed this custom all the way through. It’s a massive undertaking that
demands enormous energy—usually in short supply coming on Christmas’s heels.
But the tradition remains compelling because its intent focuses one’s thoughts
about the New Year. It raises important questions about what we carry with us,
along with what we don’t need, as we move forward in time. While we may not
have the wherewithal to purge our homes of a year’s worth of obsolete rubbish,
we can surely find time to survey our lives. Are there stale ideas cluttering
our cupboards? Are we hanging onto things with no lasting value? Are our
closets crammed with unbecoming attitudes and habits we should be relieved of?
Entering the New Year with a clean house is a wonderful thing.
The Ugly Stuff
A big part of our trouble with letting go useless—and often
detrimental—things we’ve taken on springs from not knowing what will replace them.
If I discard unproductive resentments, anxieties, prejudices, and memories I’ve
clung to, what’s left? Something in us fears looking at a severely thinned-out
closet. Yet Sunday’s New Testament reading (Colossians 3.12-17) presents an
enviable wardrobe of new fashions for the taking. In verses 12-14 we read, “As
God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with compassion,
kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. Bear with one another and, if
anyone has a complaint against another, forgive each other; just as the Lord
has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. Above all, clothe yourselves with
love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.” The long list of
desirable clothing the writer names—compassion, kindness, humility, meekness,
patience, forgiveness, and love—is extremely helpful in two ways. First, it
tells us what should be in our
closets; it calls out attitudes and behaviors that define the faithful
believer’s style. But it also
identifies what shouldn’t be left
hanging around. Anything that contradicts or compromises the qualities it
describes must go. There’s no room in our closets for injustice, cruelty,
pride, aggression, impatience, resentment, and hatred.
Of course, such negative traits are ugly things—too ugly for
most of us to imagine ever wearing in public. But they have a way of creeping
into our wardrobes because they’re all too common in fashions we see every day.
They’re like trendy clothes we’ve worn in the past, donned under pressure to
appear “stylish,” only to look back once the trend has faded and see how
hideous and unflattering they really were. What’s more, if we’re not thorough
in our resolve to toss out the ugly stuff, it tends to turn up in trivial
accessories that detract from an otherwise attractive style. All it takes is a
funky belt or scarf or set of earrings to throw the whole look off. What seems
subtle and inconsequential at first becomes glaringly gauche. Anything that clashes with Colossians’
classic Christian look puts us at risk of ruining God’s reflection. The tiniest
lapel pin can be a dead giveaway that our witness isn’t what it should be.
Wear What We Are
The style that Colossians urges us to adopt is hardly haute couture. It’s not an elitist
fashion that costs more than we can afford and makes statements about our
social and economic standing. Indeed, the Colossians collection is
ready-to-wear, or as French designers call it, prêt-à-porter—literally, for the taking. (US merchants call it “off
the rack.”) As God’s children, these qualities are readily available to us.
They’re styles that we can easily understand and emulate, having experienced
their grace and beauty through Christ’s power. Being recipients of God’s
compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, patience, forgiveness, and love, we
know what they look like. We know how well they work together, bound, as the
writer says, in perfect harmony. We know the joy they bring, how appealing they
are, and how well they fit us.
The call that arises from Colossians challenges our intentions.
Will we embrace a classically Christian fashion sense that mirrors all that
Christ offers us? Or will we settle for quickly outmoded trends and funky
touches that diminish us? Will we persist in being slaves to worldly fashions
or will we clothe ourselves in keeping with our identity as holy and beloved
children of God? Personally, I’ve never put much credence in the adage “you are
what you wear.” But the Colossians writer invites us to view the notion in
reverse, encouraging us to wear what we are.
I pray we all take time to inventory our closets
during these closing hours of 2012. May we enter 2013 with clean houses and
wardrobes filled to overflowing with attitudes and behaviors becoming to God
and us.
Happy New Year!
Colossians urges us to
adopt a classic Christian look that is becoming to God and us—and the New Year
presents a prime opportunity to inventory our wardrobes.
